Ginkgo. Sunlight.
Living in the moment is something most of us find nigh impossible. We
know it's good for us to do so, but generally we suck at it. It's like we're
programmed (or society has programmed us) to always want more. Always be
pursuing. Always be focussing on the next step. The next challenge. The
next life goal. Career. Partner. House. Kids. Better house. More kids.
More money. More stuff.
I do love that Dalai Lama quote that's been floating around the Internet of late:
The Dalai Lama, when asked what surprised him most about humanity, he said:
“Man.
Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money.
Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health.
And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present;
the result being that he does not live in the present or the future;
he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.”
It's so apt isn't it?
Currently, I find myself in a particular place in my life where I very
much need to be able to live in the moment and practice mindfulness. The future right now feels
like an ambiguous one, I
feel suspended, in limbo. For someone who has spent much of their adult life in
relationships, always either trying to fix things or focussing on that
"next step", it feels insanely impossible to shift my thinking and just
focus on the here and now.
But slowly, slowly I'm getting there. I think. I hope. I have moments
that are just good. Good for how they are right in that moment. Nothing more. Not
as part of some grand plan. I'm going to hold on to those moments and
cross my fingers I can master this art.
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